Body Language Tricks
Hi, I am Niharika and welcome back to a new lesson. Today we are going to look at 540 language tricks that would make anyone instantly like you now. Definitely it’s important that people should like us. It kind of boosts up our confidence right. So most of the people that I meet are very much in love with themselves very much interested in themselves. So how do we capture and hold their attention towards our conversation or towards us without saying a word? Well, it’s a wonderful body that would help to capture and hold their attention. So we are going to look at these ways to win friends and influence people. The first trick that I have for you is the flooding smile.
Please do me a favour, please smile. Definitely it’s very important to smile now. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you keep grinning all day long to keep drilling. That would not help. That would not impress people either because they would think that you do this for everyone. So not that impressive. What you need to do is the moment you greet people give a very positive warm, responsive, smile, okay, so the smile should flood away your face, and that would stimulate good feelings. It would give a very positive feeling to the opposite person and will show that you are really happy and you’re feeling very glad to meet this person, so do smile because work trick that a half the you is sticky eyes. So what are sticky eyes well eyes? Are the most important part of our body – and here are what I mean – is don’t break eye contact now, when you are talking to someone pretend that you are completely glued to the conversation like your eyes, are completely glued to the conversation that you’re having with the Opposite person, so this brings a little bit of confidence in the opposite person that, oh yes, he’s listening to him to me and he’s very interested in what I am saying. So this would make him or her to like you instantly now, even when the conversation ends. Don’T just look away: okay, what you need to do is reluctantly or slowly look away from that person that you’re talking to so, which means that don’t break your eye contact instantly. All right, don’t trick that a half for us big, big, baby, pivots!
Now, here’s what I mean is people are very conscious that how a person would react to them. So when you meet someone make sure that you turn completely turn your body, keep your head straight and your torso straight. When you are meeting someone okay, now you don’t have to just like look back and say hello to him. That’s not right! So give a completely undivided attention like you would do it for a baby. If a baby crawls up to you and you know, is trying to seek attention, of course, with open arms and with a straight body, you are going to give him that undivided attention. So that’s what even every adult likes he will be highly impressed if you do that, complete attention is what everybody loves. The trick that I have for you is to limit the fidget. So here’s what I mean is, if you want to appear credible, do not move much when you are having a conversation with someone, not professional and definitely not appreciated by anybody, so do not move much.
Also, stop fidgeting with your hands like stop wiggling or even stop scratching, like many people have a habit of scratching while they’re talking or you know, scratching in this manner doesn’t look good at all. So please stop that also, even if you’re really tempted to look at your phone to see what emails have you received or what messages have you received? Stop multitasking. Please give or please be attentive to the conversation that having this would impress the office with the person, and the last trick that I have for you is to use your hands the most important part of a body. Do you use them well, do not cross your hands crossing your hands or your arms shows disinterest or boredom. Are you really bored of a conversation? Oh, yes, then you can cross your hands – just kidding, but do use your hands when you are talking to someone. In fact, I read it somewhere that when you use your hands, while you were talking, it helps active speech production, which means it helps you take those words out.
You know your mind is set that you have to use these words or use this vocabulary. So it’s the hands that help you to take it out of your mouth, so don’t use it all right, do not stand straight or do not cross your hands. While you were talking to someone. So this brings me to the end of the session. Do use these tips because a body language definitely speaks out better people will like you if you end up using these tricks. If you end up using all your body gestures in a wonderful manner and of course, do subscribe to my channel and you will be posted with lots of videos, I’ll be back with a new lesson for you till then you take care.
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